She isn’t smiling at me while I introduce myself, is she a bitch? Perception can be a tricky thing. Meeting new people can be nerve-racking for anyone, especially for people that are already shy and awkward. I tend to be an outgoing person, which can also make people feel awkward. When I first met my spouse, he thought I was crazy. He walked into the room I was in at a friends get together and I instantly went right to him and introduced myself, I told him probably a little more then I should have considering I only knew his name. I gave him my number but I never heard from him. It wasn’t until six months later when I saw him again at another gathering that he told me I came off as a over-sharer and a “little too much” for him. We have now been together for almost six years.